My partner has pretty much all the symptoms of ovarian cancer, with the marker going up. We have been to two cancer specialists both saying “they don’t think it’s anything to worry about”

but her symptoms are getting worse and I’m really worried about her. Has anyone else had this happen? And what did you do to get the drs to do something straight away instead of taking their time. I’m worried by the time they realise they were wrong that it will have progressed too far for them to act on it. The only one that knows it’s something serious and is trying to help as much as he can is her gp

These are her symptoms so far:

2 cysts one on each ovary that are not going away and growing

constant severe pelvic and abdominal pain (her gp has her on strong slow release pain killers for pain management)

bloating, indigestion and changed bowl movement

constant nausea

hot flushes/night sweats

constant thick discharge

getting full easily and losing appetite

Any advice would be much appreciated as we are stuck for what to do from here!

Where can we get tested for ovarian cancer in India?

Dear Cancer,

I write to you in disbelief and a level of denial that my life has crossed paths with you. Like most people who have met you, your presence was never welcome nor enjoyed but the life-changing lessons you left behind were amazing. It is for this reason I want to say thank you for teaching me....

The true meaning of life;

That my children are my life's most rewarding blessing;

That my husband and I are true soulmates and how blessed we are to be together

That no matter what family is the biggest gift we are all given

That our achievements are own but the impact they have on others are our true legacy

How to immerse myself in each moment, giving it my full attention and care;

To be resilient in the toughest of times no matter how weak I feel

That I possess an inner strength ready to fight any challenge

Fear is a waste of precious energy and time and giving me new perspective and ability to not sweat the small stuff;<

To celebrate the smallest of wins and graciously take ownership for them because I deserve to;

To find pleasure in the simplest of beauties in life and to bask in the most glorious of them all

To re-connect with me and live my own truth

I am enough just as I am;

I have survived your ferocity and pray that others who meet you are as fortunate I In the meantime passing forward my lessons, I hope will show, that you have nothing on the human spirit and matter how hard you try that spirit will overcome you!  Sirin

Putting my learnings in words directed to that very challenge was a very empowering experience. Prior to writing this letter, I had trouble using the words 'I' and 'Cancer in the same sentence, now 10 months into remission I call my safe a Cancer Survivor and do so with great pride and gratefully. I invite your comments or even better your own letter to Cancer so that we can pay forward our learnings with others in similar circumstances.

You feel like your body has turned on you.  Suddenly you're going through menopause and have more in common with women twice your age.  When people find out what you have been through they are shocked and horrified because you are so young.  Prepare yourself for sympathetic looks and comments from strangers.

Even though you feel like you are going through a never ending hell, there are positives.  People will realise you are one of the toughest people they will ever meet.  Not much will upset you, life's small things take on a different perspective and you learn to make the most of life while you can.

Keep wearing bikinis, your scars are impressive.

If it makes you happy, do it.

If you want those shoes, buy them.

Nikki

I’m Julie and I’ve been diagnosed with Stage 2c ovarian cancer

It’s about three weeks since I made the appointment to see my GP, two weeks since I first spoke to the gynaecological oncologist and one week since my surgery. It’s weird how it’s all happening so fast, but some days seem so slow

Thankfully, the surgery went well, recovery has been mostly good and prognosis is positive. I’ll start chemo in a few weeks.

I’m 37 years old with two kids under 5. All my fears and concerns centre around them. So far, they’re coping well. We’ll just take each day as it comes and try to prepare them for the chemo journey ahead.

This website has been very useful and reading through your stories has been both informative and calming.

Thank you!

I believe this is the first post for this group. My name is Brianna and currently Im laying down post surgery after having my ovary and fallopian tube removed. As well as the bad stuff in which brought me here to share my thoughts and to remind others they too aren't alone  :) I was diagnosed on 8th of November this year with stage one. Although I have my moments, I remember the gratitude in this. A month prior I had intense pain on my right side near my ovary nothing was subsiding the pain after pain killers. I realised this was my ovaries deep down - previously I was told  two years earlier I had PCOS which was found after a 9 month bleed (sometimes heavy, sometimes light) my periods were erratic ever since they began at 15 unless on the pill.

For me I went off the pill due to the emotional side effects. I had tried many. Although my body seemed to regulate in the last year on it's own.  I still would have problems with my cycle being on and off or the last of it in september was a double period in space of 3 weeks. I knew something wasn't right. A relief to of had the first lot of surgery because a part of me did realise I could of had this tumor for some time without knowing as I was never in any intense pain previously to warrant further ultra sounds / surgery etc (this was whilst I lived in the UK returned back to Oz April 2017)

I am waiting my results all going well I hope to keep my other ovary as I've not had children. For someone like me who has always travelled and chased her goals - this part is what has caused the most emotional pain. To fear the outcome or even to fear the changes in my body. I never thought I would get to 30 and have this. I always thought it was when you're 'older'. But like many of us that I am sure are on here we have learn't to except what life has thrown at us. Finding comfort in expression and our alone moments just like now. For me personally it's harder to be around loved ones and be close to people. I am usually the anchor or helper you could say. That's where my aggression comes in and I tend to push people away.

I try to laugh and tell people it's merely a clitch in the matrix. I'd like to remind myself of my humour and also my compassion. Nature, art and writing are my biggest teachers through this. My voice still means something even though I feel held back so I hope this offers some love and reminder we're all in this together x <3

I just wanted to introduce myself and tell and little bit of my story.

I was diagnosed in 2007 with stage 3 ovarian cancer and had a 15cm tumor removed with my ovary and tube. I was 22 was i was diagnosed. Within 12months i had 2 cycles of chemo and than the other overy removed. Which meant i was 23 going through menopause. Unfortunately for me it jas spread to my lymph nodes. I have had several cycles of chemo including one that I have a severe allergic reaction too.

Today I am on debrafnib and have been for nearly 3yrs all up. I was the first ovarian patient to be put on a trail for the melanoma cancer trail..It has kept it at bay.

I have always worked throughout all of this and will continue too. As i wont let cancer stop me from living my life.

I'm Nikki, I'm 36 and I was originally diagnosed in 2010.  I've had 2 recurrences and a variety of chemotherapy, radiation, surgery, unwanted bag-like accessories and so many scans I must be due for super powers soon.  I look forward to sharing experiences, hints and tips with everyone.